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PART 1 — The Silent Wounds of Parenting from Pain
Parenting from guilt, fear, or silence can quietly wound our families for years. In this reflection, I share what God showed me about surrender, wisdom, and healing these generational patterns.
stephaniearje
Nov 204 min read


The Perfect Storm
painful family moment became the catalyst for clarity and healing. When God allowed the “perfect storm” to surface old wounds, He also asked me one question that changed everything: “What would you have done differently?”
stephaniearje
Nov 181 min read


He Did Not Absorb Rejection: Finding Freedom from Shame, False Responsibility & Cycles of Pain
Isaiah 53:3 reveals a freedom most of us never learned to walk in. The commentary on this verse in The Passion Translation footnote reads: “ Jesus was the most emotionally whole and healed man to ever walk the earth. He did not absorb the insults and rejections of even his own neighbors.” That statement went straight to my heart. And what I heard the Holy Spirit whisper in response was this: “You are not damaged goods.” If Jesus—fully human, fully feeling—could walk through r
stephaniearje
Nov 172 min read


Letting Go and Breaking Patterns Through Love: The Holy Work of Surrender
We can love, pray, and intercede—but we cannot heal another person. Here’s how God meets us in surrender and begins restoration in our families.
stephaniearje
Nov 151 min read


When History Starts Repeating: A Watchman’s Cry From Isaiah 51–53
A sobering reflection from the Holocaust Museum in St. Petersburg and the striking parallels I see unfolding today through the lens of Isaiah 51–53. A wake-up call for believers and a reminder that history repeats itself when we don’t recognize the patterns.
stephaniearje
Nov 134 min read


Like Noah: Holding Fast to God’s Word Through Delays and Warnings
Like Noah, we’re called to hold fast to what God has spoken—whether promise or warning. Even when delay comes, even when the world mocks or doubts, faith keeps building. Obedience in the unseen prepares us for what’s ahead. Stay awake, stay soft, and trust that His Word will stand.
stephaniearje
Nov 33 min read


Pick Up Your Cross and Follow Me
“Pick up your cross and follow Me.” It’s a phrase we are so familiar with. So familiar, in fact, that I have to ask— has it lost its...
stephaniearje
Oct 103 min read


The Keys I Didn’t Take
Some choices seem small in the moment—but turn out to shape the rest of your life. When I read Luke 4:5–8 in the Passion Translation, it...
stephaniearje
Sep 184 min read


Obsession, Distraction, OR Opportunity?
This is a mini-testimony and encouragement for anyone in the midst of unpleasant circumstances, warfares or simply God’s shaking. 2023...
stephaniearje
Jul 18, 20231 min read


Courage to Face Our Secrets
One warm spring evening in the early ’90s, I found myself sitting in church reluctantly listening to a special speaker. I had been told...
stephaniearje
Jul 1, 20233 min read


Roller Coaster Relationships
Just what is a “roller coaster relationship”? Quite simply, it is a relationship defined by constant emotional highs and lows. It is a...
stephaniearje
Sep 9, 20213 min read


Designed By God
Have you ever designed or created something? It might be as simple as putting pictures on a wall or as complicated as decorating an...
stephaniearje
Jul 2, 20212 min read


Mothers' Day Redeemed
Mothers’ Days are painful for many people for many different reasons. For some of us it is because of the pain that occurred when we...
stephaniearje
Jun 17, 20212 min read


Another's Choices, Another's Sin - Why must I suffer?
I recognized the voice on the other end of the call as that of Cathy’s. She was a young vibrant woman, in love with her husband, her...
stephaniearje
Oct 28, 20204 min read
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