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Understanding Generational Healing & Surrender
When a parent heals but the child still hurts, it creates a tension that only Jesus can hold. Healing is possible across generations—but every heart must choose that path for themselves.
stephaniearje
19 hours ago3 min read


The Silent Spaces Where God Shapes Us
Not all silence is the same. Some silence wounds, and some silence heals. This reflection explores the difference between abusive silence, fearful silence, and the holy silence Jesus modeled—a silence of surrender, trust, and deep intimacy with the Father. Learn how God uses quiet moments to strengthen us, break destructive cycles, and lead us into freedom.
stephaniearje
2 days ago3 min read


Letting Go in Love: How God Heals the Places Where Parenting and Pain Collide
Letting go in love doesn’t mean giving up. It means trusting God to heal the places where parenting and pain have collided. This reflection offers hope, clarity, and gentle wisdom for parents navigating old wounds and generational patterns.
stephaniearje
Nov 263 min read


The Perfect Storm
painful family moment became the catalyst for clarity and healing. When God allowed the “perfect storm” to surface old wounds, He also asked me one question that changed everything: “What would you have done differently?”
stephaniearje
Nov 181 min read


He Did Not Absorb Rejection: Finding Freedom from Shame, False Responsibility & Cycles of Pain
Isaiah 53:3 reveals a freedom most of us never learned to walk in. The commentary on this verse in The Passion Translation footnote reads: “ Jesus was the most emotionally whole and healed man to ever walk the earth. He did not absorb the insults and rejections of even his own neighbors.” That statement went straight to my heart. And what I heard the Holy Spirit whisper in response was this: “You are not damaged goods.” If Jesus—fully human, fully feeling—could walk through r
stephaniearje
Nov 172 min read


Letting Go and Breaking Patterns Through Love: The Holy Work of Surrender
We can love, pray, and intercede—but we cannot heal another person. Here’s how God meets us in surrender and begins restoration in our families.
stephaniearje
Nov 151 min read


Mothers' Day Redeemed
Mothers’ Days are painful for many people for many different reasons. For some of us it is because of the pain that occurred when we...
stephaniearje
Jun 17, 20212 min read


Rape! Where was God #MeToo
She came into the room, uptight and nervous. Her mission was to spend time with her dear friend, Holly, whom she had not seen in many...

Stephanie Arje
Nov 3, 20206 min read


Somebody's Baby
Memorial Day, a day to honor, and to grieve; a day to reflect on the cost of preserving freedom.I am the proud Mom of a once deployed US...
stephaniearje
Oct 29, 20205 min read


Another's Choices, Another's Sin - Why must I suffer?
I recognized the voice on the other end of the call as that of Cathy’s. She was a young vibrant woman, in love with her husband, her...
stephaniearje
Oct 28, 20204 min read
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