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Breaking Patterns of Emotional Abuse: Choosing the Freedom of Truth
Many of us grew up thinking dysfunction was normal. But healing begins when we break agreement with familiar patterns of emotional abuse and choose the freedom of truth. This is the journey from survival to peace, from old roles to a new way of living.
stephaniearje
Dec 113 min read


PART 1 — The Silent Wounds of Parenting from Pain
Parenting from guilt, fear, or silence can quietly wound our families for years. In this reflection, I share what God showed me about surrender, wisdom, and healing these generational patterns.
stephaniearje
Nov 204 min read


He Did Not Absorb Rejection: Finding Freedom from Shame, False Responsibility & Cycles of Pain
Isaiah 53:3 reveals a freedom most of us never learned to walk in. The commentary on this verse in The Passion Translation footnote reads: “ Jesus was the most emotionally whole and healed man to ever walk the earth. He did not absorb the insults and rejections of even his own neighbors.” That statement went straight to my heart. And what I heard the Holy Spirit whisper in response was this: “You are not damaged goods.” If Jesus—fully human, fully feeling—could walk through r
stephaniearje
Nov 172 min read


Patterns That Reveal the Master We Serve
Recognizing the patterns of truth, deception, and redemption There are divine patterns woven throughout Scripture — rhythms of obedience, courage, and worship that open the door for God’s glory to fall. But running alongside them are other patterns — patterns of deception and intimidation that seek to enslave us to lies. From Eden to Isaiah’s day to our modern world, the enemy’s tactics haven’t changed. They’ve just become more polished. And every time we partner with those p
stephaniearje
Oct 172 min read


Roller Coaster Relationships
Just what is a “roller coaster relationship”? Quite simply, it is a relationship defined by constant emotional highs and lows. It is a...
stephaniearje
Sep 9, 20213 min read


Loneliness
It comes in many forms , shapes and sizes. It is not a respecter or people. It can linger in the heart of the most popular and most...
stephaniearje
Oct 28, 20202 min read
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